You can fight it as much as you want – but you will invariably – always do more than others. You will always do more work, take on more work, and deliver more work.
It can be seen as unfair or an opportunity, you can get mad at it or think of what else it could be come later on.
Maybe the idea isn’t to realize that there is an imbalance, but rather to realize what side of the imbalance you want to be on and work towards that?