The best way to learn is to learn from others.
Learn what they have done to become successful.
Watch what they do (and stop talking about it).
Don’t share the fact that you’re learning from them.
Listen to what has and has not worked.
And then, ask questions, get feedback on your approach, what are you doing that works and what are you doing that is not.
Or, keep doing what you’re doing and hope you figure it out at some point. You probably will… at some point… or you might never… all you had to do was ask.